Love is one of the most obscure yet desirable things in our lives. Who doesn’t want to be loved, especially when you meet someone you fancy and dream to date?
Below you will find the best techniques that you could use to make a person fall in love with you.
- Make a great first impression.
The importance of the first impression is hard to overestimate. Sometimes, how you perceived by others and what you think about yourself can be very different. Step back and try to see through other people’s eyes. Everything is important here: your way of talking, clothing style, the manner of walking. You need to create a strong impression of a charismatic and easy-going person if you want to grab someone’s attention.
- The right eye contact.
Regarding the facial mimic, the eye contact is probably one of the most powerful tools we have to attract the opposite sex. Usually, we look each other in the eye for 1-2 seconds, especially if we are not on familiar terms. Long looks can be perceived as aggressive behavior. So use it only when you know the person. Look at them for a couple of seconds, then turn away, then look again. Use your eyebrows and smile with your eyes. Don’t stare or roll your eyes – it can be very annoying or even frightening.
- Unusual activities.
Oftentimes, the excitement from doing something unusual together can be mistaken for sympathy. Use this knowledge to your advantage. Leave for later an art gallery trip, if you don’t want this date to be forgotten as soon as it happens. Do something exciting together, such as wall climbing or paragliding, explore the nearby city – whatever is available in your area. Some of those activities (like pair bungee jumping) can be used as the excuse to get closer.
- Sharing secrets
Telling something deeply personal means you invite the person into your trust circle. It is perceived as very intimate when you share your memories about your childhood or your family. Be careful, though. Choose the information you want to share wisely. It should make you look good and be either funny and a little bit embracing or touching. The fact that you shared something that others don’t know will make that person feel special.
- Be mysterious.
Act a little reserved about yourself and create some kind of a mystery. Don’t give away the whole story of your life with details during the first ten minutes of your acquaintance. Stay calm and unaffected by any emotional situations. Remember that in order to be mysterious, you need to be confident and not seeking for someone’s approval. Act independently and make your choices regardless of others’ opinions. And try to behave unpredictable in terms of relationships. For example, don’t get too excited when you’re around your love interest. Control your emotions.
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